To soulmate or helpmate? That is the question.

The Lord God said, “It is not good for man to be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him. – Genesis 2:18   Many people in our society today is in love with the idea of being in love. For many, people would pour a heavy amount of energy on the wedding… Continue reading To soulmate or helpmate? That is the question.

Toxic masculinity is an oxymoron

Masculinity isn’t toxic and toxic isn’t masculinity.   When author Ayn Rand first came to the United States of America from Russia, she couldn’t believe her eyes. She had once experienced a comfortable life prior to the up-rise of theĀ  Bolsheviks under Vladimir Lenin. She was 12 years old during the Russian Revolution. The Bolsheviks… Continue reading Toxic masculinity is an oxymoron

Why does a successful woman struggle to find (& keep) a husband?

He asked me what position I like….I told him CEO -A quote from the Unmarried Ms.Independent Cat Lady     We all know at least one woman who has an awesome career- and from the outside, appears well put together and content. She has excellent work ethics. She is independent and financially free. After leaving… Continue reading Why does a successful woman struggle to find (& keep) a husband?

What’s so great about Patriotism?

Growing up in a poor neighborhood, I just knew there had to be something great beyond this noise of pain. The crying. The fights. The crime. The agony. Children had no fathers. Young boys who were desperate to regain and cling onto their masculinity, admire the life of a criminal. This criminal behavior help feed… Continue reading What’s so great about Patriotism?