Is it men or women?
Or are we both equal sexes? Resulting in no weaker sex.
Well, I am not here to bash males or females.
You won’t hear me saying words as if I’m Michelle Obama : “War on women in the USA!”
Give me a break.
You also won’t hear me worshiping men as if they are sinless immortals with superpowers.
You won’t hear me say “Girl Power” either.
And you certainly NEVER will hear me say that men and women are equal. Good God, no. (What an insult to the opposite sex.)
So, where do I stand on this? I will be glad to share!
“Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition.” – Marilyn Monroe.
This is a powerful statement. Therefore I ask, why would anyone want to be someone they are not? Why not embrace who you are, the world you live in (all while improving yourself). Once you love yourself and the world you are in, there is greatness lurking in your future.
*Your attitude determines everything.*
But any women stating she wants “equal” rights as men just stated the obvious:
1. She just elevated the male sex.
2. She just showed her unhappiness on being a female. (Which is the true war with oneself.)
Any man who agrees to this nonsense, knows he is actually hurting the woman.
“But when a woman asks for equality, they are just asking for respect as a man would get.”
(Note to the ladies: You must respect yourself in order to get it. That is the truth. This woman liberation propaganda is actual enslavement, demeaning, painful and depressing. No woman wants to be alone with her cat on a Wednesday night because she doesn’t “need” no man. But you need your cat…?)
Well, in reality, the “respect” a women is asking for is bogus. Nor does she ever want. Be careful on what you ask for.
For she is not asking for respect, she is asking for the same responsibilities as a man- which can be disgusting.
It’s a cold world out there for a man! They have dirty fingernails, hairy and their sweat seems everlasting. (Don’t be offended- any men reading this. I love men. I will get to you next.)
When a woman rides with the motion on: “I want equal work. Equal pay. Equal RIGHTS!”
Well, please understand. When something is equal–it applies to everything.
No special privileges for being a woman. No man holding the door open for you.
No separate bathrooms.
No man giving up his seat for you on the bus. Even if you are pregnant.
If you are in a heated debate with a man, and push him: Expect to get hit back. You are now one of the guys.
No women magazines.
No mommy play dates.
No girls night out.
No Life Time, channel for women.
No man picking up the check at dinner.
No man at the front line in war.
And if we happen to build another Titanic ship and it hits another iceberg- then starts to sink: No women or children preference to safety.
Isn’t it ironic that some women would ask for equal rights but with the fine print of mentioning: Handle with care, I am a woman!
It doesn’t work like that.
The truth be told, men and women are totally different. We are NOT the same, and that is what is so great!
If we were the same, then one of us wouldn’t be needed. Also, what keeps our interest as Sigmund Freud would agree: This is what fascinates us about the opposite sex. We are different. We are mysterious to the opposite sex, in which this keeps our interest. We will NEVER understand each other. And I personally don’t think we are suppose too.
That is not only exciting, but sexy!
Women offer things to the world that men can’t.
Men offer things to the world that women can’t.
We are both equally are important and different from each other. Nature has created our roles. I don’t think I see any other earthling protesting to be the opposite sex. If lions switched roles, I think lions will become extinct.
Well, you say, we are humans. Not lions.
Therefore, we should be able to rationalize this much more better… correct? But people make things complex, and it doesn’t has to be that way. It is actually very simple.
Women love their husbands. Their fathers. Their sons. Their brothers and uncles. When a woman bashes a man, she needs to consider the men she does love in her life. The men she admires.
As long as the human race ever existed, men had always catered to a woman needs. It is almost as if men were created to please women. But some women feel threaten or offended by this. A man wants to protect and provide for the woman he loves. (Why? I don’t know why a woman would feel offended. I, gladly will accept.) It is in their DNA to want to do this for a woman.
There goes your respect from a man.
And women should embrace it. If she is constantly bashing, angry or competing with him- please don’t get upset when he decides to find a woman who treats him like a man.
Please note: No one ever likes to be called what they are not.
It is an insult to call a man a woman. And vice versa!
Well, what am I implying the roles of a woman should be?
A woman has endless opportunities.
She can become a world leader like Cleopatra. Who, by the way, was very proud and enjoyed being a woman. She knew her brains (and cleavage) got her name into the history books. Now if Cleopatra spent her time burning bras in Egypt, she will never be known today. And most likely tossed into prison for insanity.
She would have went no where in life.
Instead she embraced her sex. And got world leaders to yield to her. Was she manipulative? You bet. That is the game- and she was on expert level. The key to her, was getting what she wanted: Power.
If a woman wants to become a success in her family and love- she can as well. However, one needs to understand: A person can NOT have it all. Everything has a price. To get something, you must give something. When someone thinks of a motherly, loving, faithful woman, Cleopatra is not a runner up. So obviously, Cleopatra gave up being a wife and mother to become a ruler of Egypt.
But, why does it seem like a man can have it all? He can be a war hero, successful business owner, physically stronger and have a successful family….why is it not in the cards for women?
Well, first let me be clear: Behind every great man, there is a great woman. A man would NOT be able to be successful if it weren’t for his wife. That is a win right there for both sexes.
Secondly, just because it appears a man has it all- it can be far from the truth. Men do suffer. They do get lonely as they achieve higher in life. (Men also die younger than women. Men are little dare devils!)
To keep up with the high demands and pressures that are expected from men, it can be exhausting.
Men miss their families when at war. They give up tons of play-time for work. Throughout history, men has always been away from their home. And this pains him, but he does it because he loves his family.
And he does this because he feels fulfilled as a man. He has motivation. Something to live for. He understands the challenge, but the reward is great. The glory and love. This is what he lives for, no one should take that away from him.
This shows that nature has different expectations for men and women. And if you have expectations, you are important! Do not water down your gender. Do not attack the opposite.
It’s okay to let a man be a gentleman. It is good for women if he is!
And it is okay for women to be a lady. Men love it.
(Just think what would you want for your son? For your daughter?)
It is also important to note, that in the history of humanity, there has never been a successful thriving empire or nation built by women, held by women. Now this doesn’t mean women weren’t playing the part- it is because of women that the men were able to fulfill their roles successfully.
*The key difference is: When a woman provides and becomes the sole provider- feminizing her husband- she becomes more ugly, controlling, feels more important and Feels She Doesn’t Need Her Husband. When a man is the provider, protector of the home- he feels noble, more handsome, powerful and Needed.
More (+) Money A Woman Makes= More ugly she is.
Less (-) Money A Woman Makes= More beautiful .
Its simple math, really.
(Check out the affairs of the wealthiest couples. The men are cheating on their wives with a poor girl who is a secretary, bartender, groupie or intern. Yes. That one was for you Bill Clinton.)
Now I know, some women doesn’t have the choice because they are a single mother. Therefore they feel more limited, but know that is temporary and You have the power to change your situation. For the women who are open to options: consider them thoroughly.
As for the men: There are no options. You must work!
I am not suggesting for a woman to be not financially successful- that is great for the economy. But what is great for the woman is too take care of her children. Being there for her children and husband. Building these individuals relies heavily on the mother/ wife. That should be her priority. Money will always be there.
Oh, and By The Way- if your husband and children are successful that is because of You- the wife. You deserve an applause!
Know your power. Know your place.
As a great strong leader, Napoleon had his weakness. He was powerful and showed no mercy. He led the greatest troops, conquered lands and had impressive war strategies that are still used today.
Yet, he was a slave. To his wife, Josephine. His last word at death was, “Josephine.”
Now, am I implying males in reality, are the weaker sex?
Hold that thought now…
Women- once you already understand the power you might have over a man- do not abuse it. Just like a man should not abuse a woman (for he is not a man if he does so). A real women does not abuse their power either. If either sex uses their power for evil, well, history shows us it does not end well.
Use it to be productive, not destructive.
To wrap up the answer to the topic: We are both equally weak!
No one likes to be called weak.
The truth is, we need each other to elevate each other. Women do need men. Men need women. One gender might have success where the other fails- but that is only one area. Males and females both supply strengths and weakness- this is why we are both needed. Both is valuable.
Like the human brain and heart: Both are important and equally needed. Both provide different functions to stay alive.
“When God created man, it was His rough draft. His masterpiece is woman.”
Love each other.
And you do this best by loving yourself.
Together, we can elevate the human race using a positive strong heart.
And our big brains.